Reverend Monsignor
Robert T. Mulligan, Ph.D.
1926 - 1996
Homily at his Mass of Transferral
By Reverend Thomas W. Groenewold
Bishop McGann, Bishop Wcela,
Bishop Dunne, Bishop Connors,
Reverend Fathers, Deacons,
Religious, Members of the St.
Agnes Staff, Family of Monsignor
Mulligan, Relatives and friends
all...
We meet tonight, in shock,
sadness and loss as we mourn the
death of our beloved rector. We
have lost our leader, one who had
taken us and our needs to his
heart, one who was so dedicated
to us. Shock is all the greater
because he walked so tall and
straight and seemed so healthy,
ready for anything. Yet in a very
few minutes, while he was
ministering to a grieving family,
life left him. He went to God, to
share more fully in the glory of
Jesus' resurrection.
May we express our condolences
to his brother Harry, to Harry's
wife, Eileen, Monsignor's nieces
and nephews, to his relatives and
to his personal friends.
No homily by or about Monsignor
Mulligan would be complete
without a few dates and a little
history.
August 15th, 1958 dawned as a very
typical August day - humid, hot and
sticky - and it was only 5:45 AM
when I met Father Robert Mulligan
for the first time. He had been
assigned to the 6:00 AM Holy Day
Mass at Our Lady of Mercy in
Forest Hills and I was his server.
Young Father Mulligan was on
vacation, spending the time with his
parents who lived only a few blocks
away. Almost forty years later I
was to learn that he was always
willing to help and to do the jobs
and take the assignments that
were not exactly “prime time.”
In 1971, my mother and I moved
from Forest Hills to Melrose
Street in Valley Stream, in the
parish of Holy Name of Mary. It
was there that at the 5:00 PM
Saturday Mass, we had our first
history lessons. It was there that
I greeted the gentle, soft-spoken
priest who was the weekend
assistant, the principal from St.
John the Baptist High School. In
1987 when I was ready to
celebrate my First Mass at my
new parish of St. Agnes, Monsignor
Mulligan was the rector. In 1992
when my first assignment ended,
he and Bishop McGann asked me
to come to St. Agnes.
Very often we look up to people
as icons in our life and when we
get to know them better, the
edges get tattered. That was not
the case in my association with
Monsignor Mulligan. My estimation
of him has grown over these past
four years. I admired his
intelligence, his wit, his
seriousness, his dedication, his
compassion, his varied interests,
some of which we shared:
railroads and railroading and
history. I was amazed at his
variety of fountain pens, his
interest in computers and his
devotion to his dogs, Barnaby
and Bijou. I was also amazed at
his concern for our physical
plant, he never allowed
crumbling bricks and a thin
checkbook distract him from
communion calls, hospital visits,
office counseling, or wedding
intakes. Because of his devotion
to the sick and the dying,
bereaved families often asked
him to celebrate the funeral of
their loved one. He was doing
just such a thing when he was
taken from us.
Whatever Monsignor Mulligan did, he
applied all of his considerable
intelligence to it. Being the
founding principal of St. John the
Baptist High School was no easy
task. Under his leadership the
school thrived. He gathered a
staff and faculty that was
concerned for students, for their
intellectual growth and their
moral and religious formation.
His concern for the excellence of
the televised Mass on Channel 55
and TeLlcare was a constant
concern. He was concerned for
the people of St. Agnes: for the
whole parish, for the welfare of
all, for parish outreach, for the
school, for religious education
and adult formation, for the
music program. On All Souls'
Day last Saturday he led us in
such a moving tribute to
parishioners who had died this
past year. On Stewardship
Sunday, he preached at all the
Masses and told us how much the
past ten years here had meant to
him, the happiest years of his
priesthood and thanked us for the
support we had given him. His
yearly talk at first penance about
the prodigal dog Max was so
popular with the children they
thought of it as their favorite
Bible Story. He enjoyed the
children so much and they loved
the priest with the dogs. His was
always the longest line at first
penance.
Monsignor Mulligan was so generous
with himself in so many ways
that time-off grew less and less
these past few years. His
relaxation was walking the dogs,
burning the midnight oil in
reading or learning the latest
computer software. He never
missed a meeting with the priest
support group. He may have
been late but he was always
there. He was also so concerned
about each of us priests at St.
Agnes. He made sure we had our
time for ourselves. He allowed
for our interests and our
initiatives.
Monsignor Mulligan was a man of
prayer. Each morning we priests
gather for the Liturgy of the
Hours in our community room.
Bob never missed. Not only was
it an opportunity to pray with his
fellow priests, but it was also an
opportunity to talk informally
about what was happening in the
parish, what our agendas were
and what decisions had to made.
When we found his
breviary, it was next to his
favorite chair. He had
highlighted lines of the passages
from the Office of Readings,
something we never knew, but it
was so typical of his
thoroughness and his interest and
his dedication.
The motto of St. John the Baptist
High School is IN FIDE ET
LENITATE. Translated, it
means in faith and in gentleness.
We know it was his personal
motto. He was a good man, a
good priest and an excellent
Christian.
The passage from Lamentations
echoes the suddenness of our
loss. We have no peace. Life is
upset for this parish, its priests
and its bishop. Where is our
shepherd, the one who guides us?
Where is our still point, our
anchor, our leader? Faith gives
us an answer. The mercies of the
Lord are not exhausted. We need
to trust in God and his goodness.
God will show us the way in the
spirit of his Son. Our faith leads
us to hope.
In Baptism, we die with Christ
and we rise with him to new life.
God fills us with his grace so that
we may complete the journey he
has laid out for us. At times our
faith and our hope is tested. The
promise of eternal life and eternal
peace is our goal, as it was for
Monsignor Mulligan. We believe he
shares in that fully now.
The Final judgment scene from
Matthew we just heard read was
Monsignor's favorite for a
funeral liturgy. He often told us
of St. John of the Cross who said,
“In the twilight of our life, we
shall be judged by love.” We
shall be judged by God who is
love and we shall be judged by
the love we showed in our lives.
For a priest who showed so much
love and so much compassion in
his life, our faith tells us that last
Monday evening Jesus said,
“Robert, come, you are blessed
by my Father, enter the kingdom
prepared for you from the
foundation of the world. For I
was hungry and you gave me
food. I was thirsty and you gave
me drink, sick and you visited
me. Naked and you clothed me.
Whatever you did for the least of
mine, you did for me.”
Monsignor Mulligan was assigned to Holy Name of Mary Parish as an assistant priest on June 24, 1959 and remained until he was transferred on June 26, 1963.
Monsignor Mulligan later returned to Holy Name of Mary on September 7, 1965 as Principal of St. John the Baptist High School and remained in residence until September 1, 1986.
This span of 25 years was second in length to only that of the founding pastor,
Monsignor Peter P. McGovern, who served the people of Holy Name of Mary for 50 years.
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